Yeah, I feel like a crochety old woman at times, but that's how I've always been. I think it's a question of consideration. Some people (like us) can enjoy ourselves without bothering others. Some people just don't give a f**k and think only of themselves. Unfortunately we the thoughtful tend to be drowned out by the second group.

You sound just like me in college. I would lock myself in my room and everyone else in the building was running naked down the halls screaming. I didn't understand then any more than I do now.