thee hee the whole this was. and 100% yes and what you just said my parents where extremely homophobic (i'm latina even though i don't look it). though after seeing me and toast and how happy we are and how right for each other we seem they finally see that it just comes down to love. which in turn when people ask about me or if ones of there friends kids or grandkids are queer she educates them about it.

But this comes back to the power of being "out" they need to see we are just people who love.