grrgoyl: (jayne calm)
The weekend of Tery's first marathon didn't go quite as smoothly as I had hoped. The first thing that went wrong was picking up my sister and brother-in-law from the airport. The itinerary had stated 11:20 as the arrival time. As we pulled out of the driveway at 10:30, we got Amy's text "Just landed, we're at the back of the plane." Almost a full hour early? That must have been the mother of all tailwinds.

When we met them, I quipped that the weekend was already "an unmitigated disaster," at that moment jinxing us all.

Not only did the weather miss the memo that my sister was in town and I wanted everything to be perfect for her, but on day two Tery and I both discovered our cars had been broken into, insurance papers and other glove compartment contents strewn on the floor. Luckily, (if you want to think of it that way) we had both left our doors unlocked, so we were at least spared the cost of replacing our windows. On the other hand, we might have not been victimized at all had we locked them since the perp was clearly looking for a quick, no-mess in-and-out.

My iPod is currently missing; I'm still searching, though not hopeful. The fact isn't lost on me that this was literally the only time I'd left it in the car since my last iPod was stolen, also literally the first night I left it in the car. If it doesn't turn up, I'm quickly falling in love with the idea of using my phone as one ("Finally!" said [livejournal.com profile] kavieshana and millions of iPhone users everywhere)

My night on the air mattress didn't go so well; the damn thing had a slow leak and I woke up at 4 am flat on the floor with the mattress billowing up on either side of me. I snuck down to the couch where I spent an equally restless few hours trying to convince myself I was comfortable with my feet hanging over the edge and no elbow room.

But no part of the visit was more disastrous than the marathon itself. Don't believe me? Oh, read on, my friends. ::Read on:: )

So, not the optimal experience for a first marathon. But Tery is choosing to take it as a learning experience, and is more determined than ever to finish one now. My sister's first order of business when returning home was to search for 5k races in Connecticut they could do when Tery goes back next month. I love my sister.

The weekend wasn't all bad. I discovered Subway's yummy Orchard Chicken Salad sandwich (fully aware it's only seasonal so I'm not heartbroken later). Amy and I rocked out the Wii and generally had an awesome time (if too short). ANDANDANDAND....Banksy finally arrived!


If I look slightly crazed, it's because it took Tery about two minutes to work out how to use my phone camera app. The one with the big enormous shutter button on the screen



Evil sister looks evil



How I choose to remember Tery



My family
grrgoyl: (methree)
Okay, so, we made it to California, driving a dawdling 60 mph on route 15 (we had many fans that day, I can tell you) because we thought Amy and Rob would be meeting us at 9 pmish (it turned out by the time they landed at the airport, got a rental car and drove an hour to the hotel, they were in no condition to handle my family).

My family. I spoke at great length here about their many flaws. Not surprisingly, they've gotten even worse with time. Still talk your ear off for hours about everything happening in their lives, while never once expressing the slightest interest in yours. My mom is not as guilty as Nancy, although by the time we had left we had well and truly had our fill of both.

Tery had had it within the first hour. I joined her in the bathroom where she was having an honest-to-goodness breakdown. She's met them before of course, but back then she had the sanctuary of alcohol to create a refuge of numbness. Seeing them in their purest, unadulterated form proved far too much for her. She couldn't believe their self-centeredness and complete lack of attention paid to me. I assured her repeatedly I was used to it, that it's how it's been my whole life. But her reaction made me think for the first time perhaps that didn't make it right.

However, things got exponentially worse the next day when Amy showed up with Rob and baby Jane, my 1-year-old niece. So much so that by Wednesday Amy announced to my mother that she was never visiting them again. If you read on, you'll see that this decision was entirely justified.

::Fresh wounds for the scar tissue:: )

Me and my sister are each other's only family. It sounds melodramatic; I mean, we weren't beaten or anything, and we didn't feel like we had an awful childhood at all. But evidently we were (and are) victims of some pretty serious emotional neglect. Our untrained diagnosis is pathologic narcissism, with perhaps a touch of ADD or even autism thrown in. If you read all that under the cut, I thank you from the bottom of my heart, because I guess I've spent a lifetime being ignored and I just always accepted that that was the way it was.

We spent Friday driving home. We missed our cats terribly after being oversaturated with dogs all week (mentally and physically), so were in a bit of a hurry. Unfortunately we got stopped in Cedar City, Utah (ironically the same city with our Travelodge). I got clocked doing 95 mph in a 75 zone (thank god I was driving and not Tery, who is still on probation). The cop was as nice about it as he could be: He reduced the recorded speed to 85 and gave me the minimum fine, $90 as opposed to $240. I apologized to him and he quipped, "It's the passenger's fault; they're supposed to be watching for cops." We drove a resolute 5 only over the limit the rest of the (considerable) distance.

(FYI, I read some of the other violations on the ticket. Use of a handheld device while driving? Mandatory court appearance and $595 fine. Word to the wise, [livejournal.com profile] kavieshana.)

This was on top of receiving a cease and desist email from Comcast when they tracked my IP address downloading movie torrents (gonna knock that off. First letter is just a warning, I think). And I just found out today that it's illegal, possibly even a felony, to videotape on a casino game floor, so the video I'm planning to post next will need some editing. All in all this trip was full of all kinds of lawlessness, on top of intensive psychoanalysis. I need a vacation.

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